Wedding FAQ Part Two

Happy Friday, everyone!

If you missed yesterday’s post – check it out HERE with part one of wedding FAQ featuring the lovely ladies of Commerce Street Events.

Today, we are answering part two with questions on your maids, wedding attire and the latest trends in weddings!

Q: Should I help pay for bridesmaid dresses? Or what is an appropriate amount to ask to pay for a bridesmaid dress?

CSE: This is a tricky question, it also depends on the age of your bridesmaids. Older bridesmaids normally do not have a problem spending money on a bridesmaid dress. However, we appreciate brides who allow their bridesmaids to pick their own dress in the same color. This way the bridesmaid can determine what makes sense for her situation financially.

BAC: I don’t think most bridesmaids (when agreeing to be in your wedding party), expect you to pay for their own dresses these days. However, if something is a concern for them, they should feel comfortable enough to approach you from the beginning to come up with an appropriate solution. Being in weddings is expensive (especially as a female) and it adds up so be open to looking at options for those that might be concerned.

Q: How much should you spend on bridesmaid gifts?

CSE: Depending on the number of bridesmaids, we normally say $100-200 is a good price point.  This is enough to show bridesmaids they are loved without breaking the bank.

BAC: Agree – I love when these are presented at bridesmaids luncheons (traditionally held the day before or day of the rehearsal dinner).

Q: Should I get my parents a gift for helping financially with wedding?

CSE: This is a thoughtful gesture we recommend. Instead of thinking in dollar amounts we suggest something that will be sentimental to the parents such as a handwritten note or a monogrammed handkerchief.

BAC: Absolutely. Whether it’s a handwritten note or small gift, a sentimental gesture goes a long way and something they will be sure to remember too on your special day.

Q: What is appropriate attire for a 4pm wedding vs a 6pm wedding?

CSE: There are a lot of variables in the attire based on the venue and the couple. Traditionally, a 4pm wedding is more causal and shorter dresses are proper. A 6pm wedding is more formal and unless other wise noted on the invitation should include a long dress.

BAC: If there is no direction on the invitation, and often times there is not, I would go with the rule above. However, if Black Tie is clearly stated – please follow the rules.

Q: For CSE, Should I hire a videographer?

CSE: YES! YES! YES! Many of our brides regret not hiring a videographer. Not only do you get a short video from the wedding day, but you will also receive all of the coverage from the day. This is great to have to watch on first year anniversary or when you want to remember the day.

 Q: Is it appropriate to post pictures on social media before the professional photographer posts pictures? 

CSE: This is a decision for the couple. Some couples love to see pictures on social media others prefer to wait for professional images. However, it is extremely improper to post a picture of the bride in her dress getting ready before she walks down the aisle.

BAC: I think it depends on the couple as well. I’ve read a lot lately about “unplugged” weddings or social media bans. Personally, I’m not sure a ban all together is necessary. I love when wedding weekends have ## and signs (bet you could of guessed this one). But I will say one thing, I do not like it went there’s iPhones and cameras out in a church or during a ceremony or while the bride and/or groom walk up or down the aisle. If creates for photos like THESE and I think this is a time when the professionals should do their job and capture the best moments.

Q:  And Finally, for CSE, What are the most popular trends in weddings you’re putting on? What’s in? What’s out? What’s next?

CSE: What’s in: Rustic Elegance, Multiple Shades of a Color Palate, Bohemian Chic, Lucite Decor, Family Style Reception Dining, and “Naked” Cakes.

What’s out: Colored Sashes for the Bride, Traditional Rules for Every Aspect of a Wedding, and Boring Mothers of the Bride or Groom Dresses

What’s Next: Jewel Tone Color Palates, Pastel Colored Wedding Dresses, Wedding Week Celebrations (instead of just a wedding day), and Nashville Destination Weddings!

Should we do a part three? Let us know & send your questions my way!

{All Images via Commerce Street Events}